June 2, 2015 • Cee • Reviews

hello i love youHello, I Love You by Katie M. Stout
June 9, 2015
St. Martin’s Griffin
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A teen escapes to a boarding school abroad and falls for a Korean pop star in this fun and fresh romantic novel in the vein of Anna and the French Kiss.

Grace Wilde is running—from the multi-million dollar mansion her record producer father bought, the famous older brother who’s topped the country music charts five years in a row, and the mother who blames her for her brother’s breakdown. Grace escapes to the farthest place from home she can think of, a boarding school in Korea, hoping for a fresh start.

She wants nothing to do with music, but when her roommate Sophie’s twin brother Jason turns out to be the newest Korean pop music superstar, Grace is thrust back into the world of fame. She can’t stand Jason, whose celebrity status is only outmatched by his oversized ego, but they form a tenuous alliance for the sake of her friendship with Sophie. As the months go by and Grace adjusts to her new life in Korea, even she can’t deny the sparks flying between her and the KPOP idol.

Soon, Grace realizes that her feelings for Jason threaten her promise to herself that she’ll leave behind the music industry that destroyed her family. But can Grace ignore her attraction to Jason and her undeniable pull of the music she was born to write? Sweet, fun, and romantic, this young adult novel explores what it means to experience first love and discover who you really are in the process.


I received this book for free from St. Martin’s Press in exchange for an honest review. This does not affect my opinion of the book or the content of my review.

First sentence: “Big Brother, I want you to know something: It wasn’t your fault, not any of it. “

Ever wonder what happens when you decide to run off to go to boarding school in South Korea? Yes? (If you’re thinking, “why would she go to boarding school there?” me too, folks. Me too.)

Hello, I Love You is about what happens when an American teenager, Grace Wilde, runs off to South Korea to escape the pressure of being part of a well-known family in the music industry and the tragedy that had befell on her family. She attempts to adjust to her new life at a boarding school in Korea, and along the way, she encounters her roommate’s twin brother, Jason, who’s an arrogant but insecure Korean pop star and who she constantly clashes with. And of course, love blossoms in the air, and soon the issues of their past come to the surface, forcing them to face it head on.


  • Open your mind more, and embrace this new country you’re in.

Oh my god, do you know how baffling it was to read about how ignorant Grace is of Korea and the culture? I know it’s expected, but why didn’t this girl research the country she decided to run off to? Grace is incredibly close-minded and judgmental; she doesn’t have a very high expectation of South Korea. (For instance, she thought Korea had only traditional music—not pop or hip hop—and didn’t think Koreans could speak flawless English. So cringeworthy.) She’s dismissive of Korea even though she picked the country to go to! You’re in a pretty advanced country, Grace!

Her cultural unawareness was a painful, yet accurate portrayal of a person who doesn’t understand a culture they’re unfamiliar with. I just wanted to thrust things to expose her to the awesome of the culture like watch Korean dramas or eat all the foods.

  • Tone down that entitled brattiness and snobbiness, especially when it comes to music.

You’ve heard about culturally ignorant Grace, and you’ll hear about bratty and snobby Grace now. Her attitude is horrible. Coming from a well-off family who’s in the music business must’ve influenced Grace quite a bit because she acts like a big snob, especially towards music. It’s quite unbearable. She puts down Korean music and various other things, almost like they are inferior to whatever she knows and likes. She’d make comments to “help,” but her suggestions have such an entitled air to it that it’s just makes you roll your eyes.

Often times, she’ll be impressed by something these Korean characters do (like having a great guitar or a Korean drama she had initially put down), and she’ll think to herself, “I’ll give them that” as if she’s handing out points for having good taste. Take that snobbiness somewhere else, Grace.

  • Don’t be so petty when Jason ignores you.

That horrible song by Katy Perry, “Hot N Cold,” perfectly describes Grace and Jason’s budding relationship.

These characters go through so many ups and downs of liking and not liking each other that it was just painful for me to read. Grace gets incredibly petty when Jason ignores her, even though it’s because he doesn’t know her or he’s working, and sometimes she’d do things like, and I quote, “shoot daggers at the back of his head with [her] eyes, hoping he feels all the hateful thoughts I have for him.” What are we? Twelve? She sounds so ridiculous, and makes me sideeye her for acting like she’s been wronged just because she was ignored. Their romance was a roller coaster I wanted to jump out of because I was not a fan.

  • Stick your nose out of people’s business.

Add nosiness to Grace’s bad traits.

Grace has a bad habit of butting into situations she has no business being in. For someone who doesn’t want to divulge her past and secret, she’s so interested in knowing other people’s secrets. She barely knows Jason (and is intent on hating him for ignoring her), yet she demands—not cautiously ask like any normal person would’ve done—that he tell her what’s the deal with him and Sophie, his sister/Grace’s roommate. She acts like she’s entitled to know about their business when they don’t owe her anything, especially since it’s a family matter. I bet Grace wouldn’t like someone sticking their nose in her business too.

  • Stop thinking about Jason all the time; spend time with Sophie and the others.

Where are the friends that Grace makes?

I wanted to see more of Sophie and her relationship with her brother. I wanted to know more about Tae Hwa and Yoon Jae, who are Jason’s bandmates. I thought the relationships between all of them would be a better read than reading about all of Grace’s bad traits. These Korean characters really do disappear once the romance between Grace and Jason moves forward, which is a damn shame.


Hello, I Love You had potential to tell a beautiful story about Korea and its people, but unfortunately, it didn’t give me (and many other readers) what I had expected. I thought I would be immersed in the Korean culture—the food, the people, the music, and so on—but for a book that’s set in Korea, “it reads like another white teen drama,” as said by Kayla. I do not disagree one bit with that statement. At times, it felt like it was set in Korea as an attempt to be diverse, and it just didn’t work. I never felt like we stepped out of the Western bubble to truly embrace the rich Korean culture.

Should you read this book? Perhaps, Grace may be an unlikeable and unbearable character (who actually never grows beyond her bad traits), but there are tons of people like her which I feel like readers can relate to. However, you should be aware of the problems in the book that Rose does a beautiful job of addressing in her review, which is better than I could ever write.


7 Responses to “REVIEW | Things I Would Say to Grace Wilde in Hello, I Love You”

  1. i love your review! i was going to pick up this novel after reading the summary (i really wanted to see a book with kpop being important/noticed), but after reading your review i probably wouldn’t be able to finish it. grace sounds like such an annoying and character! i’m disappointed this book came off as “white-washed” even though it had such diverse potential ://

  2. I agree with everything you said, Cee! It was extremely idiotic of Grace to move to a country she knew absolutely nothing about. And her prejudices about Korea made me want to smack her in the head with a brick. I agree about the way she “helped” too. It’s like blogging–be constructive, but be respectful. And the way she was so adamant that Jason share ALL of his secrets–what are you, married? Fantastic review, and I am with you 100%.

  3. Katherine says:

    I was looking forward to this, but after reading this, it doesn’t seem like something I would enjoy AT ALL. I liked the Anna and the French Kiss comparisons, but this sounds like it takes a girl being introduced to a new culture/romance in entirely the wrong way. I always think it’s a shame when a culture that is rarely talked about in YA is done in not a very good way, because this might be the only popular book set there. I don’t really think this is for me.

  4. Oh gosh, your review is much nicer than I would have thought. Haha. I liked how you formatted this. :) Everything you listed in this review is why this book is SO not for me. I can take a character being ignorant about another culture and being an elitist, but for the entire period of a book and never realizing that it’s not okay? That is not okay with me, at all. That’s bad character development, but at least she faced her family tragedy. That’s a plus.

  5. Elizabeth says:

    I am so disappointed by all the reviews I’ve been seeing :-/. I follow the author’s blog and I’ve been CRAZY EXCITED for this book to come out since I heard about it because:

    1. I’m a white girl dating a Korean boy. Can I tell you how many times I’ve seen that reflected in any media ever? Never. NEVER. (I know Eleanor & Park and Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt have said relationship with an Asian man, but I haven’t read/watched them yet)
    2. The author watches K-dramas and loves K-pop which makes how she’s written even more unfathomable to me (judging by the reviews) because I know that she actually really loves the culture! Maybe she just didn’t think the average person would fare well in another culture or something? I’m not sure what the reasoning was. But I was looking forward to basically a book version of a K-Drama, and that’s clearly not what I would be getting if I picked it up. And every time I hear about this book it makes me hurt inside now :( I can’t remember the last time I was this excited for a book that wasn’t by Sarah J. Maas – I almost preordered this! And I very, very, very rarely preorder books! I’m going to go drown my sorrows in K-dramas now…

  6. I’m really not sure what else I can add to this, because you nailed all the points in my head! I couldn’t hit everything that I wanted to in my review, since I’d get into rude/ranty zone, but A+ for being coherent and clear about this book!

  7. acps927 says:

    I still thought I might be able to give this book a chance until you said Grace never gets over her bad attitude. That is pretty unforgivable for me. It’s too bad, because that cover is so cute!

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